Introduction activity #2 - Power play
Objective:
Understand the different roles we each play in a bullying drama and recognize
we have a choice as to what role we play.
Materials:
• Two sets of the five signs (see pp. 13-17), each of the five signs
reading: Bully; Assistant Bully; Bystander; Target; Defender
• Scenarios
• 100 pennies (you could also use M&Ms, jelly beans)
Pre meeting preparation:
Read through the scenes and concepts to become familiar with them.
Activity directions:
• Explain the four roles of bullying, holding up each of the signs:
• Bully–Person who is hurting someone on purpose
• Assistant Bully–Stands next to the Bully and/or laughs along and agrees
with the bully.
• Bystander—Tries not to be involved.
• Target—Person who gets bullied.
• Defender—Helps stop the bullying.
• Ask for four volunteers.
• Each volunteer is given a sign.
• Tell the girls you’re going to read the scenes aloud. After the scene is
read, ask each girl what person in the scene fits the description of the
card they’re holding (for example, who was the bully in the story?).
Progress through the scenes from easy to medium to complicated.
Alternate activity: Split the girls into two groups. Give each girl a sign. Let
them read the scene and plan a skit that focuses on the role represented
on their sign.
• Discuss how their character behaved in the scene and why. Some sample
questions to help guide your discussion:
• Why do you think your character was the … (target, defender, bully,
bystander)?
• How does your character feel?
• Who has the power in this scene?
• Ask the girls, “Who really has the power in a bullying drama?” Present the
statistics using 100 pennies, and explain that the 100 pennies stand for
100% of people. Show the girls that out of every 100 people, or 100% of
people:
• 6, or 6%, bully
• 9, or 9%, are targeted
• 85, or 85%, are bystanders, assistant bullies, or defenders
• Talk about how much larger the group of 85 bystanders, assistant bullies,
or defenders is than either the group of six who bully and the group of
nine who are targeted, or even of both of those two groups combined.
Ask the girls, “What would happen if 85% of us stood up when we saw
bullying and said ‘No’”?
Scenes
1 - Angela won’t stop making fun of
Janelle because she wears clothes that
aren’t “cool.” Angela’s friend Tammy
says, “Yeah, Janelle, your clothes are so
weird.” Kim hears her but pretends not to
notice. Serena sees that Janelle is really
sad. When Angela walks by Janelle and
says, “Did you get those clothes from a
garage sale?” Serena says, “That’s mean,
Janelle. I think your shirt is pretty.”
2 - The girls on the soccer team are
planning a sleepover, but Janelle doesn’t
want to invite Serena because she’s new
to the team and too quiet. In school,
Janelle tells Serena, “Too bad you weren’t
invited to our sleepover.” Pam says she
agrees that Serena shouldn’t be invited
because she is so weird. Angela acts as if
she does not hear her. Kim tells Janelle,
“If you don’t invite Serena, I’m not coming
either. We’re supposed to be a team.”
3 - Kim has invited all of her friends to a
skating party. Angela doesn’t know how
to skate. Kim points at Angela and says,
“Look at her!” Sandra says, “How can you
not know how to skate?” Serena giggles.
Then Janelle says to Kim, “Not everyone
knows how to skate yet.” Janelle takes
Angela by the hand and they sit down for
a snack.
4 - Angela, Janelle, and Serena always get
to the swings first during recess. One day,
Serena won’t let a new girl, Kim, get on the
swings. Serena says, “You’re not part of
Serena’s super swing club.” Marissa says,
“Yeah. Why don’t you go find something
else to do?” Janelle just keeps swinging.
Kim tries to get on the swings but Serena
holds the swing out of her reach. Kim gets
tears in her eyes. Angela says, “That’s silly,
Serena. The swings are for everybody.”
Angela gives Kim her swing.
5 - Janelle is given the role of team
captain and is asked to pick her baseball
team. She chooses Kim, Cherese, and
Angela right away, but doesn’t pick
Serena. Cherese whispers and smiles
with Janelle and laughs. When Kim asks
her, “Why didn’t you pick Serena?”
Janelle replies, “I don’t want her on our
team. She always strikes out!”
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