Fasting while working is an even greater endeavor. Make it a little easier on your Muslim colleague by
following a couple of simple rules:
The Greeting
The next time you find yourself in line for the copier with your Muslim colleague, feel free to wish him or her
“Ramadan Mubarak” or “Ramadan Kareem” or simply “Happy Ramadan.” We absolutely love it when people
acknowledge Ramadan and are happy about it.
Positive Reinforcement
Keep in mind that we’re fasting voluntarily and, actually, pretty joyously (despite the tired, sad look on our
face). We’re not forced to fast. In fact, we wait for this month the whole year, so you don’t have to feel sorry for
us. We are not trying to be rescued (other than by that ticking clock taking us closer to sunset!).
The Lunch Meeting
Most of us understand that life goes on, and so do lunch meetings, and if we are participating in them while
fasting, don’t worry about eating in front of us. This is just part of the test. We appreciate your acknowledging
our fast, but don’t feel the need to discuss it every time you show up in our line of sight holding food. Please
ignore our stomach when it growls at your sandwich.
No Water
It’s true — we can’t drink water either. Again, this is part of the Ramadan test and our exercise of spiritual
discipline. This is probably why you may not find your friend at the water cooler. Try switching the break time
conversation to another location in the office. You should probably also let them skip their turn for the coffee
run this time.
Iftar Dinner
Consider holding a Ramadan Iftar dinner . Iftar is the Arabic word for the meal served at sunset when we break
the fast (it’s literally our ‘breakfast’). This will be a nice gesture for Muslim coworkers and will give others the
opportunity to learn about and partake in Ramadan festivities. Although there is no specific type of meal
designated for iftars, it is tradition to break the fast with a sweet and refreshing date before moving to a full-on
dinner
Fasting is not an excuse
Although energy levels might be low, the point of fasting is not to slack off from our other duties and
responsibilities. We believe that we are rewarded for continuing to work and produce during our fasts. Fasting
is not a reason to push meetings, clear schedules, or take a lighter load on projects.
That said – we don’t mind if you help work in a nap time for us!
Ramadan is a time for community and charity. There are iftar dinners held at mosques every night (you are
welcome to join the fun – even if you’re not fasting!) and night time prayer vigils throughout the month. We give
charity in abundance and make an extra effort to partake in community service. Throughout it all, we maintain
an ambiance of joy and gratitude for all that God has blessed us with, and reflect on those in this world who
have been given much less. This is a time for all of us–not just Muslims–to renew our spiritual intentions,
increase our knowledge, and change ourselves for the better.